You’ve Got a Friend in Me?! 4 Bizarre Friendships

This summer, mental_floss co-founder Mangesh Hattikudur read a book called Picking Cotton, the story of a college student named Jennifer Thompson who misidentified the man who raped her. A decade after his conviction, thanks to a DNA test, Ronald Cotton was exonerated. The real twist, however, is that against all odds, Thompson and Cotton are now close friends.



Thompson and Cotton aren’t alone. Here are four more pairs of pals and partners no one could have predicted:

1. Al and Jeanie Tomaini

Think you know an oddly-matched married couple? Nearly everyone does, but on the basis of looks alone, Al and Jeanie Tomaini take the cake. Al was a circus “giant,” measuring at least 7 feet, 4 inches. While performing, though, he claimed to be 8-foot-4, and who’s going to argue with a man of that stature about a foot here or there? He wore a size 22 shoe and toured as “The World’s Tallest Man,” but the Guinness Book of World Records disputes this title, awarding it instead to the 8-foot-11-inch man Robert Wadlow. Like Wadlow, Tomaini had an overactive pituitary gland that caused him to tower over his 6-foot-1 father.



Jeanie Smith, meanwhile, was billed by sideshow promoters as “the Only Living Half-Girl,” since she was only 2.5 feet tall; Jeanie was born with no legs, and her hands and arms were deformed. Despite these physical handicaps, her circus acts (initiated by her parents when she was 3 years old) featured numerous acrobatic feats. Smith and Tomaini met in the course of performing, and in 1936, while playing at a fair in Cleveland, they eloped. After their honeymoon, the Tomainis continued to tour as “The World’s Strangest Couple.”

Al’s height-accelerating medical condition also caused his early death, in August of 1962. Jeannie lived much longer, dying in 1999 on the anniversary of her daughter Judy’s adoption.

2. Pope John Paul II and Mehmet Ali Agca

OK, it might be a stretch to call these two “buddies.” But there’s no denying their close relationship was unique. In 1981, while he was allegedly on the payroll of Bulgarian intelligence, Agca attempted to assassinate the Pope at St. Peter’s Square in Rome. Although four of his bullets reached their mark, seriously wounding John Paul II, Agca was restrained by a nun and group of spectators and couldn’t finish the job or escape. Intensive emergency surgery saved the Pope’s life, and Agca was sentenced to life in prison in Italy.



Here’s where the story gets really weird, though: most of us would have no pity for a hired political killer, even one who was sent to jail for life. But from his hospital bed, the Pope asked his fellow Catholics to pray for Agca, “whom I have sincerely forgiven.” In 1983, the pontiff famously visited his near-assassin in prison to further extend his sentiment of forgiveness and reconciliation. Indeed, the Pope would later say he believed the hand of the Virgin Mary had deflected the bullet that would have killed him.

When John Paul fell seriously ill in 2005, Agca reportedly sent a letter to his onetime target. The letter has not been published, but unconfirmed sources have said it wished him well while also warning of the forthcoming end of the world. More recently, the Italian press has reported that Agca wants to be publicly baptized in St. Peter’s Square, as a tribute to “the most respectable and kind-hearted human being of the 21st century.” Owing to a pardon from the Italian government in 2000, this may be possible, at least once Mehmet is released from a Turkish prison for a different murder he committed in the seventies.

3. David Wilson and David Wilson

Meeting someone who shares your name may be a surprise, but it’s not that rare, especially when you have a name like David Wilson. But what if you share more than just a name? David Wilson, a 28-year-old filmmaker from New Jersey, found that with David Wilson, a 62-year-old BBQ restaurant owner from North Carolina, shared a link to the most disturbing facet of America’s past.



Working with genealogist Nancy Carter, the younger Wilson found out that his family had belonged for generations to the Wilsons, a wealthy plantation family in North Carolina. It was then that the young filmmaker made “the most awkward [phone] call I ever experienced in my life.” He called the older Wilson, who was still living on one of his ancestor’s rural plantations, and said point-blank what he had found out. With a cameraman in tow, the New Jersey David traveled south, ultimately making a TV documentary about his journey to understand the past and present state of race relations.

Since the documentary Meeting David Wilson came out last year, the two David Wilsons have remained good friends, exchanging cards before the holidays and talking two or three times every month.

4. James Carville and Mary Matalin

It sounds like a romance straight out of The West Wing: liberal political consultant works for one presidential candidate; conservative political consultant works for his opponent; they meet; they meet a couple more times; they start dating; the campaign ends, and they start a family together.



The story of James Carville and Mary Matalin is perfect for television. Naturally, nearly all of it has been broadcast—they were top aides to Bill Clinton and George H.W. Bush, respectively, during the 1992 campaign, meaning that both were constantly in the spotlight. To this day, nothing much has changed: you’ve probably seen them debating politics on one of the countless cable-news roundtables or Sunday-morning shows. As Matalin puts it, “Not every guy has a wife who calls him a serpenthead — or worse — in front of a couple of million people.”

But what happens at the end of the day (or, more likely, the end of the news cycle), when the couple returns to their home in New Orleans? Supposedly, they try their best to keep politics away from the dinner table. “We know not to bring up political issues,” Carville told Fast Company. “It’s like some people’s mother-in-law. The subject comes up and generally you’re worse off for having the conversation.”

Gary McKinnon: Wanted, Dead or Alive (Guest opinion/Oxblood Ruffin)

Above: Gary McKinnon and his mother, Janis Sharp. Below, a guest opinion post by Oxblood Ruffin, a writer and human rights activist based in Munich, Germany.

Gary McKinnon is a Scottish technical expert, or as he is referred to by US federal prosecutors, the perpetrator of "the greatest military hack of all time." This claim is "total fucking bullshit", a phrase common amongst information security professionals.

Although Mr. McKinnon has high name-recognition factor in the United Kingdom he is virtually unknown to the American public. He is a mentally challenged hacker who waltzed through ninety-seven US military Web sites before being caught. Mr. McKinnon was looking for evidence of UFOs. He has Asperger Syndrome, a form of autism. It doesn't make him Rain Man but it does create a different perceptual framework.

Gary McKinnon was arrested in the UK in November 2002 after a thirteen month hacking spree into US military networks. He was eventually caught because he used his own email address to download a program called RemotelyAnywhere. Before the bust McKinnon had been under surveillance by Britain's High Tech Crime Unit. But then he did that, dare I say, retarded thing.

Gary McKinnon left his email address plus a number of taunting messages such as, "Your security is crap" on US military servers. Personally, I think the messages were on the polite side. America's military network security is the cyber equivalent of Swiss cheese. My granny could have pulled off McKinnon's hacks and she was well in the grave before they even transpired. Because remember, if you wanted to intrude into US military sites in 2001 all you had to do was key in: user = guest; password = hello.

And so Gary McKinnon was arrested by the High Tech Crime Unit in Britain. He detailed everything and confessed without an attorney being present. Now bear in mind, this is a guy who has Asperger and didn't fully comprehend the consequences of what he had done. Yet his confession was signed-off on, and the process began.

US Federal prosecutors told McKinnon's attorney that if he traveled to America and pleaded guilty that he'd only get eighteen months to three years in prison. McKinnon declined as the offer was not put in writing, although a similar offer was later filed in court papers. Accordingly, Mr. McKinnon was charged in the United States with seven counts of computer fraud at ten years per count [PDF Link] Then came the Lapdog Treaty.

In March 2003 - one year after Gary McKinnon was nabbed - David Blunkett (then home secretary to Tony Blair) secretly popped over to America to sign the 2003 Extradition Act. It was a legal arrangement between Britain and the US to fast track terrorists from one side of the Atlantic to the other. The terms of the agreement can most charitably be described as asymmetric. Legal scholars can have a wank-fest over the minutiae of the arrangement but it boils down to this. If America wants someone from the UK they need only apply reasonable suspicion. Whereas, if the UK wants someone from America then they must prove probable cause.

Reasonable suspicion is the standard to make an arrest; probable cause is the standard to indict.

In real terms, British prosecutors are required to surmount an evidential barrier that American defendants can contest before extradition to the UK. But American prosecutors can extradite any British citizen with substantially lower standards. Even if British citizens were not in the vicinity of a crime, they could not argue to the contrary. It's the law. Check it out on Google.

The sad fact is that it''s easier to extradite a British citizen to the US than it is to extradite a New York resident to California. If the 2003 Extradition Act were a two way street then one side would be a superhighway and the other side would be a dirt road, with potholes. Compounding this nonsense is that the treaty was intended to be applied to terrorists, and not utilized retroactively against mentally-challenged eccentrics.

From McKinnon's arrest in 2002 to date, his case has garnered an extraordinary amount of ink in the UK. It started with hysterical claims by US federal prosecutors; traversed the fact and fiction of the file; included McKinnon's diagnosis as an Asperger sufferer; circumnavigated the extent of the British judicial system; personified McKinnon as the victim of the Lapdog Treaty; saw famous musicians record a song in his support, and celebrities flock to his cause; and generally, piss off the British press and every sensible person in the United Kingdom. All of this was in no small measure due to the efforts of Janis Sharp, Gary McKinnon's mother. She is best described as a cross between the mother that everyone would love to have and the Archangel Michael. For the atheists out there, this equation represents an ocean of love mixed with a tidal wave of whup-ass.

Ms. Sharp has taken on a singular role in the defense of her son because the British Prime Minister, his cabinet, and the government as a whole would rather genuflect to Washington than protect one of its most vulnerable citizens. Despite the testimony of one of Britain's leading psychiatrists and autism experts that Gary McKinnon might commit suicide if extradited; regardless that Baroness Scotland - the UK's attorney general - does not hold the Extradition Act in high esteem; spiteful that a member of Parliament resigned in protest over the travesty; ignoring the direct opposition of the government's top anti-terror advisor; etc., etc., etc. In the face of all of this and more, the government is shambling about in a willful state of dislocation. They have clearly lost the plot.

Although most people accept that politicians steal candy from the same children they kiss for the cameras, the public draws the line at inhumanity. No government is allowed to play Russian roulette with a person's life. Because what is fundamental to this case, once you strain away Labour's craven mendacity, is that Gary McKinnon's life is at risk. He suffers from an anxiety-prone version of Asperger that is exacerbated by stress. And that is what the British public understands even if the government refuses to confront the truth. Does the Prime Minister actually want to hold a press conference several months from now and say, "I regret to inform you that Gary McKinnon took his own life in an American prison because we failed to act"?

The British public stopped asking for justice for Gary McKinnon some time ago. Now they're demanding it.

IMAGES: Below, photos taken at a McKinnon rally in August, 2009, provided by Gary's mother. Oxblood says, "The aubergine-hair-colored lady is Janis Sharp; the man with the angular face is Gary McKinnon; others = general protestors."

How Long Does A Top Athlete Work For $100,000?

4 Ways Students Can Save Thousands a Year

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Whether you are heading to school for the first time or going back for another year, you’ll quickly have to face a sad paradox. College is expensive and students are perpetually broke. Forget tuition and room and board, the cost of textbooks, software, transportation, and just about everything else is enough to put any aspiring student into debt. It’s almost like there is a target on your back (or your wallet). Rather than sit back and let the debt pile up, try these four simple cost savings strategies to save thousands annually.

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1. Stop Buying, and Start Renting your Textbooks.

Remember those $150 textbooks that you skim through once out of guilt or fear? Every time I went through the checkout line I held deep-seeded resentment about paying outrageous sums for textbooks that I would barely use and then end up selling back to the bookstore at the end of the semester at a fraction of the price I paid for them. You would think that having three different bookstores on campus would result in competitive pricing, only to find that they were all charging the same obscene price right down to the penny.

Studies show that the average student spends over $900 per year on textbooks. But you may not have to anymore. There are now a number of textbook rental sites that claim to offer up to 70% or more off of retail price to rent textbooks for a semester. For starters, you may want to check out Bookrenter, Chegg, and Campus Book Rentals. Additionally, you may be able to find used versions of your books on Amazon, Abebooks, or Ebay. A little competition in the marketplace is a beautiful thing.

Average Savings: At 50% off – $450 per year

2. Ditch the Office!

At some point, we’ve all had to write a paper, present to a class, or use a spreadsheet for a math project. Yes, we’ve all needed to use an office software suite and if you go the Microsoft route when purchasing software, you’ll end up paying approximately $120 for Office 2007.

That’s one option. Fortunately, there are a few other options these days:

Open Office: Powered by Sun Microsystems, Open Office is an open source office software suite that is nearly identical to Microsoft Office. The best part is that the full suite is available for a free download at Openoffice.org. You are even able to share your files in Microsoft office program formats if you need to share them with others.

GoogleDocs: GoogleDocs is a suite of “cloud-based” word processor, spreadsheet, and presentation applications. Although the features aren’t quite up to par with MS Office or Open Office, the programs let you collaborate with others and can import and export into other formats. This makes it a great option when working on projects with other students in real (or delayed) time.

Best of all, they’re free.

Together, these two free options should be more than sufficient in meeting all of your document needs.

Average Savings: $120 per Office version

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3. Rolling Down the Street – In a Bus.

Before the macho types lynch me for suggesting that they give up an opportunity to impress their sorority dream woman, here is a difficult to hear truism: the right date will not only care less that you take the bus versus riding around campus in an SUV, but they may actually respect and like you more for it.

Even if you’re able to find a modest used vehicle at $200/month, you will probably need to add at least another $100 or more per month for insurance and fuel. Additionally, you will be able to avoid all of those extremely frustrating parking tickets (how do they always find you??). In contrast, a search for my alma mater’s bus system yielded a semester-long bus pass for a mere $50.

Average Savings: $2,600 (for a $200/month vehicle with $100/month in insurance and fuel expenses)

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4. Open a Local Bank or Credit Union Checking Account.

Even as we trend more towards a plastic society, ATM fees for college students can add up quickly. If you’re attending a school out-of-state or even just out-of-region, your bank or credit union may not have authorized ATM’s. Starting up a free checking account for these petty cash transactions can be a huge money saver.

In 2008, the average cost of using another bank’s ATM was $3.43 per transaction, up 13% from 2007. Back in the day, it wasn’t uncommon for students to make at least one or two ATM withdrawals per week. Avoid this unnecessary expense!

Average Savings: $110 annually (1 withdrawal per week)

What tips do you have for savings money while attending school?

For more of GE Miller’s writing, visit personal finance blog 20somethingfinance.com.

Stick to your Workout Schedule with these Five Steps

Have you ever started on an exercise regimen, hoping to get fit, lose weight, or tone up? How long did it last? We've probably all had the experience of starting off keenly, going to the gym three or four times a week. That is until life gets busy, enthusiasm wanes, and we end up skipping just one or two workouts. Before we know it, those few missed workouts have become a month of no exercise.

So how can you help yourself stick to an exercise routine? Well, it's not just a matter of will power: don't tell yourself that you're just not disciplined or determined enough. Rather than beating yourself up for being lazy, think about how you can create a structure that supports your exercise routine.

Here are five easy steps to doing that:

1. Work Out With Others
   Either go to a regular gym class (most run on a weekly basis) or pick a set day each week to meet up with a friend to do something energetic. There are two big motivational benefits to this approach:
   
   
   • Having a set time to work out means you can't do that "Oh, I'll go later on..." thing. (Where "later on" ends up becoming "tomorrow", then "next week".)

   
   

   • Having a friend or a group of friends to work out with makes it much harder to flake out. None of us want to look bad in front of others, and none of us want to let people down.




2. Keep An Exercise Log
   Get hold of a little notebook or diary that you can jot down details of your exercising in. This doesn't need to be an obsessively detailed training log - just write down what you did, and for how long.
   
   It's motivating to look back on all the successful days in your log, and writing it down can be enough motivation to get off the sofa and go for a jog: you don't want to skip a planned session.
   
   Another approach to this is to tick off or mark the days on a calendar when you've met your exercise target: again, you'll find that you're motivated by not wanting to break a good run.




3. Get Enough Sleep
   If you're struggling to prop your eyes open all day at work, you're unlikely to feel very keen to hit the treadmill afterward. Plus, your performance will be under par if you're tired. It's much easier - both physically and psychologically - to stick to an exercise routine when you're well-rested.
   
   Even if you are tired, try not to use it as an excuse to skip a planned session. Go a bit easier if you have to, but you'll probably find that the exercise is a great way to wake up and get some energy back.




4. Eat Healthily (And Enough)
   When you're exercising regularly, it's particularly important to eat healthily and sensibly. That means making sure you're not trying to work out straight after a heavy meal - or on an empty stomach. It also means getting enough protein (for muscle growth) and carbohydrates (for energy).
   
   Unless you're training intensely, you don't need energy gels, bars or shakes - just eat a snack an hour or so before working out. Good snacks are a banana, oatcakes with peanut butter, a small sandwich, or plain popcorn. A Mars bar might give you an initial sugar rush, but it won't provide the lasting energy you need to see you through a work out.
   
   When you're exercising for weight loss, make sure that you are eating enough. Your body can't perform without fuel, and you could risk injuring yourself. Cutting your calorie intake too low has health risks.




5. Get Your Kit Ready The Night Before
   This is such a simple tip, but it can make all the difference in your chances of success. Pack your gym kit, and any equipment you need, the night before. This means you won't be scrambling around in the morning rush before work, trying to get everything together.
   
   If you exercise first thing in the morning, lay out your running kit and your trainers (or your yoga mat, or your exercise DVD) - then you can jump straight out of bed and get going, rather than wasting time (and talking yourself out of it) while looking for things.

Do you have an exercise routine? How do you help yourself stick to it?

Written on 8/24/2009 by Ali Hale.Ali is a professional writer and blogger, and a part-time postgraduate student of creative writing. If you need a hand with any sort of written project, drop her a line (ali@aliventures.com) or check out her website at Aliventures.

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Secret Secret Dino Club - Dot Com

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Officially one of my new favorite songs, found thanks to LMFAO radio, thanks to Krysta. <3

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